How To Be Lucky and Get Everything You Want In Life
A persons success doesn’t depend on “luck” you create your own luck. People who say you are lucky don’t see all the hard work that you have put in. What you do today to better yourself will set you up for opportunities that people on the outside looking in view as lucky.
To get lucky you will need to take action into the unknown. The unknown is scary for most of us, we prefer normal and comfortable. Many of the fears that we have come from a lack of confidence, and how you cure fear is by taking action. Hope is a start, but hope is not enough, it needs action to overcome hurdles. Next time you feel fear ask yourself what kind of action can you take to conquer your fears.
Isolate your fear, then take proper action. You need to learn to develop the habit of being decisive; hesitation only magnifies what you are worried about. Learn to become aware of your thoughts and deposit only positive thoughts in your memory bank. Negative thinking will only produce needless wear and tear on your mental faculties. Surround your self with people who have a positive outlook on life. You can grow immensely by having friends with different ideas, styles, and personalities.
To think confidently you need to act confidently. If you learn to move with the proper motions, you will produce the proper emotions. You can simply change your attitude by changing your physical actions.
To think big you must use words and phrases that produce big, positive mental images.
• “I am an: amazing person, likeable person, dependable, caring, non- judgemental”
Thoughts lead to feelings. Feelings lead to actions. Actions lead to Results.
Your ability to evolve yourself into the most original you will put you in a position of high demand in our rapidly changing world. In an age of being able to copy anything, people crave other people who are completely original. Whether it is original thought, attitude, fashion, style, mannerisms, language, etc. your goal is to figure out what makes you unique. Then package it in a way that will have an emotional effect on someone. My ability to make other people feel genuinely good (important) was one of my biggest assets in creating opportunities others viewed as luck.
In the conceptual age that we are living being good is simply not enough. It’s not enough if you are a good husband, wife, boyfriend, girl friend, student, employee, employer, etc. If you are a good boyfriend you won’t have a girl friend too much longer. We live in a society that is progressing at an increasing rate. If you don’t provide your girl friend with what she wants (needs) it is not very hard for her to find someone who will. You now need to be an amazing boyfriend and provide something that no one else can provide. So next time you see a beautiful woman with a guy you label as being lucky, luck had nothing to do with it, he simply provides her with something that not many men can.
“We can become blind by seeing each day as a similar one” Paulo Coelho
Ways To Change Your Life
• Mix up your routine
• Change your environment
• Break out of isolation
• Break out of yourself
• Surprise your self
• Seek challenges
“Through travel I first become aware of the outside world; it was through travel that I found my own introspective way into becoming part of it” Eudora Welty
My goal is to make you notice and pay attention to ideas and concepts you may already know about. First you must believe in your idea, learn to hold it until it becomes a reality, then through your influence the people who believe in you will expand and fuel your idea.
Starting Life Over Again
“No Limit to Thought” – Earnest Holmes
Sky’s The Limit The Power To Change:
1. Set Your Goal
2. Create a clear idea or picture
3. Focus on it often
4. Give it positive energy
It’s never to late to start living your life, you create your own destiny by the decisions and actions you take. Cultivate the attitude of constantly trying to outgrow old ways of thinking and expand your awareness. Constantly strive to reach new vantage points that will help you see something that you never noticed before. Immerse yourself in experiences that engage all your senses. Learn to be fully present in whatever you are doing, this is the only way you will develop insight.
Work on becoming aware of how your own mind and internal decision making processes really work. Only then will you be able to begin to gain control of them. When you have awareness of your inner decision-making process you will never be lost. This type of awareness leads to inspired actions.
Your journey is all about becoming the master of your internal world. Being in control on the inside will help you make the proper decisions on the outside world. So when the right person, place, or thing comes along you will be able to take action or simply accept it coming into your life. living and acting from the present moment, you will be continually growing and evolving your identity, because everyday you are updating your inner ideas about who you are. People will say that you’re a lucky person, but we know that you took the actions necessary for it to manifest in your life.
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