How To Change My Life By Going With The Flow

“Don’t ask what the world needs. Ask what makes you come alive, and go do it. Because what the world needs is people who have come alive.” – Howard Thurman

Play The Game of Life

The only constant is change, it is life’s very nature. The problem is that we hate insecurity, we always try to make things known and comfortable. After a while we become miserable because everything is known, we try to make our lives conform to a certain pattern. But how can you make life conform to your ideas?

You just need to realize that life is dynamic, you need to embrace life’s uncertainty. It is important to learn to be open to life and be fluid with your ideas. Everyone typically fights and struggles with their environment. When you deeply understand that life is uncertain, you learn to go with the flow, you learn to work and cooperate with it.

Ways To Change Your Life

• Mix up your routine: Routines become a prison because we begin to feel stagnate. We feel like machines, simply reacting to our environment in an unconscious manner. Anything you do with awareness, being totally present will be new, but to jump-start your awareness purposely change up your routine. If you drive to work the same way every day, decide that today you will take a new route. Pay attention and notice everything, see how much more alert you feel because it’s something new.If you go to the same restaurants all the time, mix it up and go to somewhere you never even thought about going. Maybe this is your time to try Indian food for the first time.
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• Change your environment: The easiest way to get you of your comfort zone is to change up your environment. Going from the busy streets of New York to being a beach bum in Costa Rica will definitely give you a new perspective on many things in your life.
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• Break out of isolation: If you have not made any new friends this year, get out there and meet some new people. Go to places you normally would not go to, and meet people who are completely different than your current set of friends. The goal is to meet people who will introduce you to new things you would have never discovered on your own.
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• Break out of yourself: To break out of yourself means that you need to really understand yourself. What are you? Who are you? Realize that your self-image is not who you truly are, your thoughts are only a certain aspect of your identity. Become acquainted with your inner space, learn to constantly observe yourself, and become fluid.
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• Surprise yourself: Attempt to do something you have never tried, you may just surprise yourself with the results. Have you always thought about asking out the cute girl who works at your local coffee shop, but chickened out at the last minute? Don’t think about it, just do it, at least you will get some type of answer.
• Create something: We are born as natural creators, and as we get older we get conditioned by society to become imitators. Reclaim your childlike creativity and do things that will bring immense joy and fulfillment into your life.
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Thank you for reading my short post, I hope it inspires you to embrace change and make the leap into the the unknown.

The moment you accept total responsibility for yourself, you will figure out how to change your life. Keep learning and enjoying the process, this life is an amazing game once you decide to play.